A Scary Report

September 4th, 2007

I just got an email from my sister Lisa, who is in college. She was letting me and my family know about something that happened at her university.

Apparently a student was arrested today after police found several knives and guns in his car and dorm room. They had received a tip from other students in his residence hall because they were concerned about some comments that the guy had made to them.

Thank god they came forward is my opinion. Who knows what might have happened if no one had said anything. I'm glad people are beginning to be more outspoken about their concerns and actually taking potential threats seriously. We don't need a repeat of Virginia Tech or any other school, which is an obvious statement, yes, but a true one.

More people need to be brave like that and tell someone if they are concerned about something they hear. Because people who make threats are rarely joking. It's interesting how there are signs that predict this kind of situation, but most of the time they are ignored. However, sometimes its difficult to pick out the "right" signs as true threats.

"It can also be tremendously hard to determine which distressed students are likely to pose true dangers, psychiatrists say. The known risk factors for suicide and homicide are largely similar. Warning signs include isolation, trauma, drug and alcohol use, a history of trauma or family violence, and a tendency to be impulsive. But the biggest warning sign is a history of committing violence in the past..." ~ The Boston Globe

I found some resources on school & youth violence that are good:

Please stay safe, everyone, especially those in schools and universities. The more aware you are of your surroundings, the less these things will happen. I feel like I keep stating the obvious, but I don't think you can say it all enough.

Cody & Oreo!

On a lighter note, I have a video clip of Cody and Oreo playing! :D They are so cute together and it's so obvious that Cody is still a baby. :P His pouncing and wrestling skills aren't that great! XD I also uploaded more photos of him being cute, go check them out! :D

Hope everyone had a good Labor Day weekend. I spent it hanging out with Chaz, and friends, and playing video games, hehe! :D Perfect way to spend my time, woot!

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Kenneth Sep 05, 2007

Aww Cody is awesome. Post more pictures and photography of the kitten :D So cute pouncing around trying to hit air :P

Thao Sep 06, 2007

It’s amazing how much more often you’ll actually hear these stories now that tragedies like VA Tech have happened. You’re right, more people need to not be afraid of telling someone SOMETHING if they are in the position to do so.

Arien Sep 06, 2007

Lord, the kitties are killing me!! I love them so! I saw Cody’s brother and sister yesterday. You know, they are much bigger then he is, the sister just a tad and she was originaly the runt of the whole litter.

I’m glad you sister is safe and someone called the authorities. That stuff is freaking scary and I hate to think about it happening here. I wish I knew what made these people do things like that. Why would anyone want to hurt anyone, especialy complete strangers…?

I’m updating my WP now. I hadn’t logged in in awhile and hadn’t caught the new release yet. No worries, I’m sure that’s why the feed crapped out.

Call me! :art:

Mallory Sep 06, 2007

I have a few choice words about the subject of reporting people. My roommate nearly called the police on me and threatened me with a restraining order and wanted my mom to Baker Act me (She thought I was psychotic). Just because I wasn’t being the happy fluffy perfect roommate, letting her use my stuff and eat my food and not saying thank you for presents I got her. She forced me to pretty much vacate my own apartment for a whole month before I moved out, because she “didn’t feel safe”. She knew who and what I was like before I moved in with her, it didn’t bother her until it affected her. She could have SERIOUSLY messed up my life, just because she didn’t have the balls to talk to me about it. Now I’ve removed her from my life. She can rot in heck for all I care. So, before you judge them, think about the people on the other side. Some may be crazy killers, others may just not get along well with people. Is this going to turn into 1984 where you report someone for nothing?

Sorry, I just get a little worked up about this. She thought I was like the VT shooter. And it’s absolutely wrong to assume that about people. She was just an idiot who was too weak to deal with her own problems and used me as a scapegoat. (She was failing her classes and I think she used me as an excuse to her parents. Even though she’s failed other classes before and I wasn’t her roommate.)

Melissa Sep 06, 2007

@Kenneth: Don’t worry, I will definitely be uploading more photos and stuff of the cats! :)

@Arien: AWWWW, I wish I could see all of them playing together!! Do you think they’d remember each other? :D And yay I’m gonna try adding your feed again! I’ll call you soon. ;)

@Mallory: Yeah I definitely see your point about that. That’s taking it way too far and extreme, for your roommate to do something like that. I don’t blame you for being angry about it. I’m not a big people person either and I had a similar kind of relationship (the no confrontation kind) with a roomie from a few years ago, so I definitely understand.

I guess to clarify, I wasn’t meaning to inspire people to report on every single little thing that bugs them about someone, because that’s lame…but to just take caution if something they see/hear just doesn’t sit well. I’m sure people make mistakes all the time, especially people like your roommate who do it for their own gain and not out of genuine concern, but it’s always good to stay cautious.

Lisa Sep 10, 2007

My god, I can see how that might have given you all a good scare. Mallory has a point, but reporting one someone keeping guns and knives is a little more substantial than reporting on someone for being difficult. I suppose the guy could have been a harmless Aspie who just liked collecting guns but the price for getting that wrong is a rather high one to pay, so I agree with you that it’s good people spoke up. I’m glad your sister’s school is safe now.

Synergy Sep 10, 2007

wow… that is pretty scary! but lucky that the people said something!

Cody is so cute :gb:

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