I hate it when someone just randomly starts up conversations of friendship with you or whatever and acts all interested in your life...asks you multitudes of questions...you get vibes that they kind of like you and want to get to know you better. Also gettin' vibes that they want to hang out with you more in person and not just conversations online and on the phone. I hate it...I HATE it...you know why? Because its wrong to lead someone on when you are actually, in reality, focusing more on someone else as your love interest...like you're not over a girl/boyfriend or your just "not sure" yet about some stupid relationship that's in its beginnings. You don't just toss people around like their backup in case your current prospects don't work out. How stupid...and then when they finally figure out what they want and end up back with their ex or hooking up with that other "someone else" they pretty much forget you ever existed. Jerk...no, jerks plural.
That's why I don't trust initial attractions...its just lame and pointless. There's no way you can get into a meaningful relationship if you waltz into a friendship with someone else and get them even the slightest bit interested in you enough in order to be able to place them on the back burner if your true love doesn't eventually come running to your doorstep. What's the point of getting to know someone better if all you really are to them is backup. What's the point of dating when most of the people even closely resembling the type of person you want to date is still hanging onto some other flame while pretending to flirt and be interested in you all the while proclaiming their undying love for so and so who broke their heart or who just "doesn't know what they want yet"...ugh...it just isn't fair sometimes. You have perfectly good pieces of yourself to give to someone...and its not like they shatter at these little incidents. It just seems that the more it happens the more you hold those pieces closer to you...and then the harder it will probably be in the end, when you really do meet someone who fulfills all or the majority of your hopes and dreams of happiness and love, to give everything to them. emotionally, physically, spiritually...yeah...
I'm not depressed...not saddened by these events...just disappointed and kind of annoyed....disgusted...yeah, that too.
Edit: I would like to point out that i did not pinpoint guys in here...its a universal rant that could be applied to anyone in any situation...so no complaints, boys.